4 Four Things Every Man Needs to Have any Woman He Wants

4 Four Things Every Man Needs to Have any Woman He Wants

1. Presence: You may ask what is presence? Presence is the ability to either walk into a room and grab everyones attention or the ability to smoothly control a room with as little action as possible. There are two ways to do this. If you are a person who is over the top and loud you may need to make your presence known quickly or your ability to become part of the room will pass you by. However, if you are the more smooth and observant type you may need to carefully find out where your place is within the room then adapt to the environment around you. Women love a man with confidence and if you exude that confidence either smoothly or in a boastful manner you will find that this will attract more of the opposite sex. Here are some examples of men with PRESENCE past and present. George Washington, Thomas Jefferson, Matthew McConaughey, Frank Sinatra, Martin Luther King Jr., Malcolm X, and Blake Shelton. 

2. Personality: Now, when I say personality I am not talking about Jim Carrey or Will Ferrell personality. I am talking about the type of personality that goes hand in hand with presence. You do not have to be over the top funny to have personality. All you need is a healthy sense of humor and the ability to properly express your personality without having those awkward moments. The first date can be the last date solely based on this alone. If you lack personality on the first date and have one too many awkward moments there is a good chance the second date will never come. However, you also will not want to give away too much personality on the first date because she could easily turned of by your awkwardness early in the courtship. This is a fine line you must walk but after a few failures and getting to know yourself you will figure it out.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SIZU_NZRfjA (Don't be this guy on the first date.)

3. The Ability to Listen: Great Leaders and Great Husbands always have one thing in common. The Ability to Listen. This one I cannot stress enough. The reason for that is I struggle with it and often have trouble getting past my own pride. However, I have found that when I do listen and take in what my wife is saying she has a good point on mostly everything she talks about. Men, women are emotional creatures and they need you to listen. They do not always want your advice. In fact you should only give your advice when prompted for it. If you choose not to listen all this will do is cause small, regular arguments that you both do not need in your life. Women want to be treasured in this part of their lives. If you cannot listen you cannot be successful at relationships.

4. The Ability to Create Great Conversation: Ok, so ya wanna be successful with the ladies. Here is the final piece of the puzzle. If you are not well educated it may be harder for you to have a conversation with a college educated woman. However, some country boys can hang with the educated ladies in this department. Looks and money will only get you so far in this thing called the dating game. Women today are more educated and opinionated than ever. They want their voices to be heard and cherished. No longer are the days of ignoring your wife and not conversing with her on the controversial and not so controversial subjects. You will have to be well read and willing to learn about things you never cared about to make your marriage/relationship successful. So put down your video game controllers and read a book guys because this will serve you better later on in your relationships. Without knowledge you will not be able to put all four of these things together.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LkCNJRfSZBU (Don't be these guys.)